Candles make the perfect gift. They’re thoughtful, versatile, and create a sense of warmth and relaxation in any home. But when it comes to both giving and receiving candles, there’s a little bit of etiquette that can make the experience even more special. Whether you’re gifting a candle to a friend, family member, or coworker, or you’ve received a beautiful candle from someone else, here are some tips on how to approach candles with grace and thoughtfulness.
1. Choose the Right Candle for the Occasion
Not all candles are created equal, and the occasion should influence your choice. A light, floral scent might be perfect for a bridal shower, while a warm, cozy fragrance could be ideal for a holiday gift. Think about the recipient and the occasion: Are they someone who loves a classic lavender or a fresh eucalyptus scent? Or are they adventurous and likely to appreciate something unique, like a spicy cinnamon or earthy sandalwood?
When selecting the candle, consider the following:
• Scent: What are the recipient’s preferences? If you’re unsure, go for popular, universally loved scents like vanilla, lavender, or clean linen.
• Size and Packaging: A smaller candle might be more appropriate for a simple gesture, while a larger candle can be a luxurious gift for a close friend or family member.
• Occasion and Message: Some candles are crafted for specific themes, like holidays, self-care, or gratitude. Pick one that aligns with your intentions.
2. Presentation Matters
The way you present the candle can make a huge difference in how it’s received. A beautifully wrapped candle shows that you took the time to create an experience. Use eco-friendly wrapping paper or place the candle in a reusable gift bag to make the gift even more special. You might also include a thoughtful note, expressing why you chose this particular scent or candle for them. This adds a personal touch that shows you genuinely care.
3. When Giving, Add a Little Extra Thought
Candles can be a simple yet personal gift, but it’s nice to add a small touch that makes the experience even more enjoyable for the recipient. Consider pairing the candle with:
• A box of matches or a chic lighter: This adds a functional yet stylish touch and makes lighting the candle easier.
• A candle care card: Many people may not know proper candle care, like trimming the wick or burning it for an even melt. Including a card with candle care tips shows you put thought into the gift and helps them enjoy their candle to the fullest.
• Complementary Items: A small set of matches, a snuffer, or a wick trimmer are practical add-ons that enhance the gifting experience. Or, you could include a little note suggesting how they might enjoy the candle (e.g., “Perfect for a cozy night in” or “Light this while enjoying a warm bath for ultimate relaxation”).
4. Receiving a Candle with Grace
When you receive a candle as a gift, take a moment to appreciate the thoughtfulness behind it. Someone chose this candle specifically for you, and that’s worth acknowledging. Here’s how to show your appreciation:
• Express Genuine Thanks: Even if it’s not your favorite scent or you don’t usually use candles, appreciate the intention behind the gift. A simple “Thank you for this thoughtful candle! I’ll definitely enjoy it on a relaxing evening” goes a long way.
• Display or Use the Candle: If it’s from someone close to you, they might appreciate knowing that you’re using their gift. Next time you have them over, light the candle or place it somewhere they can see it. This small gesture shows that you value their gift.
• Give Feedback: If you genuinely enjoy the candle, let them know! It could be a quick message like, “I tried the candle last night, and the scent was wonderful!” Complimenting the gift shows your appreciation and also helps them in choosing future gifts for you.
5. Candle Care: Spread the Knowledge
If you’re a candle enthusiast, you know there’s a right and a wrong way to burn a candle. Here are some tips you can subtly share, especially if you’re giving a candle to someone who may not be as familiar with candle care:
• First Burn Memory: Let the candle burn until the entire top layer is melted to avoid tunneling and ensure an even burn.
• Trim the Wick: Before each use, trim the wick to about 1/4 inch to prevent soot and keep the flame in control.
• Burn Time: Limit the burn to about 3-4 hours at a time. This prolongs the candle’s life and helps maintain its quality.
If you’re gifting a candle, including a small candle care card with these tips can be a sweet and useful addition to your gift.
6. Show Appreciation for Handmade or Small-Batch Candles
If you’re giving or receiving a candle from a small business or a handmade brand like Vibe & Glo Candle Studio, take a moment to recognize the care and effort that went into creating it. Handmade candles are often crafted with premium ingredients and carry the artisan’s unique touch. Supporting a small business means you’re receiving something made with passion and intention, and it’s always nice to acknowledge that.
When gifting, you might mention, “This candle is from a small business I love! They put so much care into each product, and I thought you’d appreciate it.” When receiving, consider sharing the brand on social media or leaving a review to support the small business.
7. Passing It Forward
If you’ve received a candle that doesn’t quite fit your style or you already have a collection, consider passing it forward as a gift to someone else. Regifting can be done tastefully if the candle is unused and packaged beautifully. Just make sure the recipient would genuinely enjoy it, and don’t pass it back to the original giver!
In Closing
Candles are a timeless gift that brings warmth, comfort, and a sense of calm. By approaching both gifting and receiving candles with a bit of etiquette, you can make each exchange meaningful and full of grace. Whether you’re selecting a scent, unwrapping a gift, or sharing candle care tips, remember that it’s the thought and intention that truly count.
At Vibe & Glo Candle Studio, we’re dedicated to creating candles that not only smell amazing but also encourage self-care and wellness. So next time you give or receive a candle, think of it as more than just a gift—it’s an experience, a moment of peace, and a reminder of the little things that bring joy.