
Lighting This Because I Can’t Light My Stress on Fire – Lavender + Amber Candle
Because setting your stress on fire is probably illegal… but lighting this candle isn’t.
Lighting This Because I Can’t Light My Stress on Fire is for the days when the group chat’s silent, your to-do list is screaming, and you're one minor inconvenience away from a meltdown. With calming notes of lavender, warm black amber, and grounding musk, it’s your personal exhale in a jar.
Each flicker of the crackling wood wick whispers “you’re fine, everything’s fine”—but prettier and scented.
✨ Scent Profile
- Top: Lavender
- Middle: Black Amber
- Base: Musk, Happy Pills
🔥 Why You’ll Love It
- Calming, spa-like aroma with strong scent throw
- Made with coconut soy wax + crackling wood wick
- Hand-poured in small batches in Texas
- Toxin-free, phthalate-free, dye-free
- 7.5 oz net wt. with 50+ hour burn time
- Sass and self-care in one beautiful glow
💡 Perfect For
- Stressy girl rituals and bath-time breathing
- Lighting before meetings, meditations, or meltdowns
- Giving as a gift with a wink
- Choosing peace (and fragrance) over panic
When life’s a lot, let lavender do the heavy lifting.
- Keep wick centered and trimmed to 1/8’’ at all times
- Burn candle within sight at all times
- Keep out of the reach of children and pets
- Never burn a candle on or near anything that can catch fire
- Remove all packaging before burning
- Place on temperature safe surface to avoid heat damage
- Keep away from drafts
- Keep wax pool free of debris
- Do not burn candles for more than 4 hours at a time
- Discontinue use when ¼’’ of wax remains
- Do not use water or any other liquid to extinguish your candle
Because setting your stress on fire is probably illegal… but lighting this candle isn’t.
Lighting This Because I Can’t Light My Stress on Fire is for the days when the group chat’s silent, your to-do list is screaming, and you're one minor inconvenience away from a meltdown. With calming notes of lavender, warm black amber, and grounding musk, it’s your personal exhale in a jar.
Each flicker of the crackling wood wick whispers “you’re fine, everything’s fine”—but prettier and scented.
✨ Scent Profile
- Top: Lavender
- Middle: Black Amber
- Base: Musk, Happy Pills
🔥 Why You’ll Love It
- Calming, spa-like aroma with strong scent throw
- Made with coconut soy wax + crackling wood wick
- Hand-poured in small batches in Texas
- Toxin-free, phthalate-free, dye-free
- 7.5 oz net wt. with 50+ hour burn time
- Sass and self-care in one beautiful glow
💡 Perfect For
- Stressy girl rituals and bath-time breathing
- Lighting before meetings, meditations, or meltdowns
- Giving as a gift with a wink
- Choosing peace (and fragrance) over panic
When life’s a lot, let lavender do the heavy lifting.
- Keep wick centered and trimmed to 1/8’’ at all times
- Burn candle within sight at all times
- Keep out of the reach of children and pets
- Never burn a candle on or near anything that can catch fire
- Remove all packaging before burning
- Place on temperature safe surface to avoid heat damage
- Keep away from drafts
- Keep wax pool free of debris
- Do not burn candles for more than 4 hours at a time
- Discontinue use when ¼’’ of wax remains
- Do not use water or any other liquid to extinguish your candle
Yes! We use phthalate-free fragrance oils and clean-burning soy wax. However, always test cautiously if you’re sensitive to any scent.
It’s not just lavender—it’s a stress-busting blend of lavender, black amber, and musk crafted to calm your nervous system and reset your energy. Plus, the cheeky label is a bonus mood-lifter.
Absolutely. It’s been called “therapy in a jar.” Whether it’s for a friend, loved one, or yourself, it’s a comforting reminder that they’re not alone.

Mental Health-First Mission:
5% of every purchase supports the Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA).
Part of our Inner Glo Collection – A candle series inspired by mental health, burnout recovery, and boundary-setting. Each candle is a permission slip to pause and prioritize yourself.